I love having crushes. I've had them since childhood. Crushes (platonic or otherwise) can really show you what qualities you admire in others. These are qualities that you may need to bring up within yourself.
My first crush was Michael Jackson. I loved his music and his dance ability. As a child dancer, I was really jealous when my dancer friend got to meet him in Paris via a dance competition. When I asked her about the whole experience, she wasn't even phased. I was like "forget you then". haha We remained friends though. She was more into TLC back in the day...like old school TLC. We were just around 8 or 9 years old. East coast kids had good taste in the 80s and 90s. ;)
The great thing about crushes is that you can have as many as you want! It's really not a big deal to meet them either. You can admire them from afar as you better yourself.
The funny thing is that many people who get into relationships never really had a crush on their partners. Those relationships don't really last either. Just saying. Crushes can help you determine what you're looking for in a relationship though.
If you're still searching for love, just get a crush instead. There may be more work for you to do beforehand. Atleast the crush can keep you company and entertained along the way. It may even be mutual one day...even if it all ends up in spirit form. Just saying. lol
Sagittarius Rooster with Over 20 Years Expertise in Metaphysics.